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Men and Menstruation: Bridging the Awareness Gap-Huzaifa Sani Ilyas

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By Huzaifa Sani Ilyas

Menstruation, a fundamental aspect of human biology, remains one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized natural processes in our society. Too often, it is seen solely as a private concern for women, a view that deepens stigma and fails to recognize the shared responsibility we all have in supporting women’s health and dignity. It’s time to rethink this perspective and understand that menstrual health is not just a women’s issue, but a shared human concern.

A Shared Human Concern
Menstrual health and hygiene should never be viewed as issues that concern women alone. While it is true that women experience menstruation and bear its physical pain, empathy is a universal gift. Every man, born of a woman, shares a connection with women in various roles—whether as sons, brothers, friends, or partners. In many cultures, including Islamic traditions, men are regarded as guardians and protectors of women, supporting them physically, emotionally, and financially.

Why, then, should men not also be involved in alleviating the challenges women face during menstruation? Menstruation is a natural and essential process in a woman’s life, and while women endure the physical discomforts, men too experience the emotional and social impacts of this process. Yet, many of the hardships women face are rooted in cultural neglect, lack of awareness, and insufficient education, especially in rural communities.

This gap in awareness often results in menstruation being surrounded by stigma, misinformation, and silence. It’s time to break this silence. Men must come together to support women by understanding the menstrual process and promoting better hygiene practices. Only through education can we create a stigma-free environment where open discussions about menstruation are normalized.

Understanding the Basics of Menstruation
At its core, menstruation is the shedding of the uterine lining, a natural and healthy sign that the body is functioning normally and preparing for pregnancy. Menstruation typically lasts between three and seven days, occurring roughly every 28 days. However, this varies from person to person and can be influenced by factors such as age, health, and lifestyle.

Despite its naturalness, menstruation is often misunderstood and misrepresented. In many cultures, menstruating women are treated as impure, isolated, or even ostracized. For instance, some men refuse to eat food prepared by their wives during menstruation, a practice based on outdated and harmful beliefs. In countries like Nigeria, such stigmas are pervasive, especially in rural areas, where young girls are sometimes married off as soon as they begin menstruating, regardless of their age or readiness. This tragic practice denies them an education, stunts their personal growth, and limits their opportunities to contribute to society.

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Breaking Myths Through Awareness
Thankfully, initiatives like PSI Nigeria are making significant strides in addressing menstrual health. These organizations are working to raise awareness in rural communities, helping both men and women gain a better understanding of menstruation and its significance. However, much more needs to be done, especially in areas where cultural taboos continue to limit open dialogue.

Education is key. Girls must be educated on what constitutes a normal menstrual cycle, which typically occurs every 21 to 35 days with bleeding lasting between three to seven days. They must also learn to recognize abnormal signs—such as heavy bleeding, severe cramps, or unusual discharge—that may indicate health problems. Without open discussions, many girls cannot identify these warning signs, and the conditions often go untreated, leading to infections or more severe health complications.

Awareness also provides practical knowledge on how to manage common menstrual discomforts like cramps, bloating, and mood swings. Unfortunately, many parents, especially in conservative cultures, are too shy to discuss menstruation with their children, and as a result, girls often face challenges in understanding their bodies. This silence perpetuates stigma and hinders healthy development. For societal change to occur, we must address these gaps and create an informed, compassionate society that encourages open communication about menstrual health.

Towards a Healthier Future: Modern Solutions and Education
With the world rapidly evolving, so too have the tools available for menstrual hygiene. In the past, women often had to rely on unsanitary materials that could lead to infections or other health issues. Today, however, thanks to advances in science and technology, sanitary products are safer, more hygienic, and more easily accessible.

Access to these products is vital. Menstrual health is an essential part of overall well-being, and every woman and girl should be empowered with the knowledge and resources to manage it. An open, stigma-free conversation about menstruation is crucial for raising awareness, dispelling myths, and creating healthier, more inclusive communities.

The Shared Responsibility: Men and Women Together
Breaking the silence on menstruation is not only a women’s issue—it is a human responsibility. Men and women must work together to create a society where menstruation is understood, respected, and treated with the dignity it deserves. When we normalize conversations about menstrual health, we begin to dismantle centuries of stigma, shame, and silence that have hindered girls and women from living freely.

Every girl deserves the right to education, and no girl should miss school simply because she cannot afford sanitary products or feels embarrassed about her period. No woman should be made to feel unclean or unworthy because of menstruation.

Governments, schools, religious leaders, and communities all have a crucial role to play. Policies that ensure girls, especially in rural areas, have access to sanitary products should be prioritized. Schools must incorporate menstrual health education into their curricula, and parents must engage in open and honest discussions with their children. Additionally, religious leaders should use their influence to correct misconceptions and promote a more understanding approach to menstruation.

Menstrual Health as a Matter of Public Health and Social Justice
Menstrual health is not just a private issue but a public health concern, with far-reaching implications for education, social justice, and equity. By fostering empathy, promoting awareness, and ensuring equal access to hygiene products, we can build a society where every woman and girl can live with confidence and dignity, free from stigma and discrimination.

As we work toward a world that respects menstrual health, we lay the groundwork for a future where girls and women are no longer marginalized because of a natural, biological process. Together, we can create a society where menstruation is not only understood but embraced as a vital part of every woman’s life.

Huzaifa Sani Ilyas writes from Kano

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The Ink Dried Up: An Open Letter to Matthew Hassan Kukah-Prince Daniel Aboki

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Dear Bishop Matthew Hassan Kukah

I write you with the utmost sense of respect.

Permit me to begin by congratulating you. Not in the usual way, but in a manner that reflects a keen observation of recent developments in our country. Since the emergence of Bola Ahmed Tinubu as President, and coincidentally since your assumption of office as Pro-Chancellor and Chairman of the Governing Council of Federal University of Applied Sciences Kachia, there appears to have been a remarkable shift in the narrative of insecurity across Nigeria.

From Zamfara State to Sokoto State, Katsina State, Benue State, Plateau State, Kwara State, and indeed across several troubled parts of our nation, one might be tempted to conclude that the k!llings have suddenly come to an end. The silence is striking. The headlines have softened. The urgency has waned.

It is this very contrast that compels this letter.

You will recall, Bishop, your powerful and courageous interventions during the administration of Muhammadu Buhari. Your voice rang loud through a series of open letters that captured national attention and stirred both conscience and controversy.

On Christmas Day, December 25, 2018, you wrote with piercing clarity about a nation drifting, warning of a “nation at w@r with itself.”

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Again, on December 25, 2019, your message, “A Nation in Search of Vindication,” questioned the moral and political direction of leadership, calling attention to bloodshed and division.

On December 25, 2020, in “A Nation in Search of Peace,” you spoke even more bluntly, addressing the worsening insecurity and the growing despair among Nigerians.

And on December 25, 2022, your letter once again raised concerns about governance, justice, and the value of human life in Nigeria.

These interventions were not just letters. They were moral signposts. They reminded leadership of its duty and the nation of its conscience.

It is against this backdrop that your current silence, or perhaps restraint, becomes more noticeable.

Has the situation improved so dramatically that the urgency of those words is no longer required?

Have the forests suddenly emptied?
Have the highways become safe?
Have the cries of victims ceased?

Or is it that the burden of national admonition must shift depending on who occupies the seat of power?

Lord Bishop, sir, your voice has always carried weight not because it was loud, but because it was consistent. Not because it was critical, but because it was principled.

Nigeria still needs that voice.

Not selectively. Not occasionally. But steadfastly.

If indeed peace has returned to the troubled lands of Zamfara, Sokoto, Katsina, Benue, Plateau, Kwara, and beyond, then you deserve commendation for witnessing such a transformation. But if, as many still believe, the reality on the ground has not changed as dramatically as the silence suggests, then your voice is needed now as much as it was then. Unless there is something we are not seeing that you would want us to see, could it be a case of “Tinubu I love, Buhari I hate”? Or should we begin to wonder whether conviction has given way to convenience?

Bishop, sir, would you recommend that we keep silent when we benefit and speak up only when we do not?

Over time, we have seen that history is kinder to those who remain constant in truth than to those who are convenient in silence.

I write not in condemnation, but in expectation.

Prince Daniel a Concerned Citizen and Head of cool Wazobia And Arewa Radio on Kano

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Tarauni Breathes As Ja’o’ji Advances

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By Abba Anwar

Confidence, focus and straightforwardness are some of the major reasons why 2027 political contest in Tarauni is increasingly becoming more interesting and more dicey. Race for the House of Representatives seat especially.

When the former Senior Special Assistant to the President, on Citizenship and Leadership, Hon Nasir Bala Ja’oji, declared his intention to contest for the House of Representatives seat, against the current member, many keen political observers believe that, there are two major contenders now.

Ja’oji, according to many observers, is fast becoming one of the most fearless politicians within Kano metropolis. In the public eye, he was the first appointee to resign from his position, at the federal government level. The gut was seen as an asset, that cannot be purchase by every Tom, Dick and Harry.

Political pundits accept that, with all his unmatched connection, at the top of the ladder, Ja’oji, believes that, searching for political soul mates, on top of his “save our souls” empowerment and interventions are necessary tools for political victory. So he is changing tactics now, and for better.

The thousands of supporters he was able to gather, yesterday Friday, for the declaration of his intention to contest, surprised many as being unprecedented and overwhelming. Though anticipated.

He started from Gadar Lado, on Zaria road, took to the street with procession, to the All Progressives Congress (APC) Tarauni local government Secretariat, back to Zaria road to his base Ja’oji quarters. As dozens horse riders, thousands of supporters trekking and bike riders were chanting party slogan.

At the Secretariat he told the party leaders that his ambition “… is not borne out of mere ambition, but from deep sense of responsibility, commitment and consistent engagement with the people and the ideals of our great party.”

Ja’o’ji is someone with outright and unscathing love for APC’s strength and victory for all elections. He stresses this notion, when he said, “Over the past few years, I have remained steadfast in my loyalty and contributions to the growth, unity and electoral successes of our party at various levels.”

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For the simple reason that, this rare gem, has so many advantages over his challengers, in the race, he typifies that, his experience serving as Senior Special Assistant to the President on Citizenship and Leadership, has further shaped his understanding of governance, nation building and inclusive leadership.

Adding that, “In that capacity, I contributed initiatives aimed at promoting civic responsibility, youth engagement, and leadership development across the country.”

During the declaration event youth and women constituted the larger part of the participants, who made the event more colorful and intimidating. Many of those who attended the event, were of the opinion that, it is now their turn to support Ja’o’ji realize his political dream victoriously.

Ja’oji is indeed second to none, as Tarauni electorate believe that, his long standing initiatives in empowering his people, are indelible in the face of Tarauni political reality. Hundreds of women and youth benefited from his grant schemes, where some hundreds beneficiaries collected One Million Naira (N1m) each to aid their economic engagement in the society. For the overall development of the state, as a whole.

Many hundreds benefited from his scholarship scheme at periodic intervals. Where he sponsored their higher education across tertiary institutions in the state. Apart from yearly assistance rendered to secondary school students for writing their Joint Admission and Matriculation Board (JAMB) examinations. And their second school leaving examinations, NECON and SSCE. Among many other programmes.

His intervention cuts across all segments of people in Tarauni and beyond. Sometimes not minding their political affiliation. That is why people are of the opinion that, Ja’oji could be marketable and sellable easily. As his pedigree informs this reality, for the past few years. Even before he started nurturing a political ambition. Which shows that, Ja’oji has been an ardent supporter for human progress and development. A sole action that endears him to the people. Particularly those at the grassroot. Genuine electorate at all levels.

With all his shortcomings, as a human being, as no human beings, apart from Prophets and Messengers of Allah, are infallible, meaning infallibility of human beings is assured and reassured in this life, Ja’oji has age over other would be contestants. As some political pundits observed.

His long presence in the life of his people, supercedes other contestants, especially those that are new into the system. As speculation suggests that, there are some people who are drafted and some are about to be drafted into the battleground. But electorate promised that their weight is already behind Ja’oji.

As Ja’oji advances with full force with his declaration of interest and as there are reports that, within the circle of those would be contestants’ structures, some misunderstandings started emanating from within, Tarauni is about to breath well with Ja’o’ji as the rallying point.

Anwar writes from Kano
Saturday, 25th April, 2026

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THE UNIFIER ALIGNS WITH THE NOMINATION OF MURTALA SULE GARO AS DEPUTY GOVERNOR OF KANO STATE

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The Unifier Project expresses strong alignment with the nomination of Hon. Murtala Sule Garo as Deputy Governor of Kano State, as the development is really strategic and a well thought decision that would certainly support in the ongoing consolidation of governance under the leadership of His Excellency, Abba Kabir Yusuf.

The nomination reflects a deliberate effort to strengthen political cohesion, deepen administrative excellence, and reinforce trust within the structure of political governance in Kano State.

Hon. Murtala Sule Garo represents a symbol of political depth, administrative skills, and grassroots connection, as well as qualities that are essential in supporting effective governance and sustaining public confidence in any political leadership.

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We are strongly of the opinion that, the decision aligns with the broader vision of unity and inclusiveness, which the Unifier Project has always continued to advocate across the state. The nomination is surely one that transcends routine political considerations, positioning itself as a step towards enhancing stability and improved service delivery.

The Unifier Project views this development as a reinforcement of democratic values and a reflection of responsive and inclusive leadership that takes into account experience, loyalty, and the need for broad-based acceptance in governance.

A political decision of this nature contributes significantly to strengthening institutional trust and encouraging wider participation in governance processes, especially at the grassroots level.

The Unifier Project therefore expresses its full alignment with the nomination and reaffirms its commitment to promoting unity, political stability, and constructive engagement across all levels of society in Kano State.

The organization therefore calls for a continued support for leadership decision that prioritizes collective progress, institutional balance, and the overall development of the state.

Signed:
Mohd Babagana
Kano State Coordinator,
24th April, 2026

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