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The Day My Mouth Was Left Agape at an Abeokuta Restaurant

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Abdurraheem Saad Dembo

 

By AbdurRaheem Sa’ad Dembo

In June, 2015 I was in Abeokuta on an official assignment but my experience at a restaurant around Panseke has remained memorable. It was a day my mouth was left opened in dismay. It was also a moment I was dumbfounded going by what I had witnessed at that restaurant.

I am from Ilorin but I lived in Kano throughout my secondary school and University education, even though I visited Ilorin at the end of every semester. So is as good as I may not know what is obtainable among the young people in the Southern part of Nigeria.

As usual, I entered the restaurant and requested for rice and beans with two meats; meanwhile, a group of young boys who were gorgeously dressed in polo shirts and three quarters came in. One of them said they should sell three wraps of Amala with forty pieces of meat. The next person requested for two wraps and thirty meats and so on. They came along with big plates or I can call it a slightly big cooler. I looked at my left and right side perplexed.

That was the first time I had witnessed such a scenario since I was born. The woman fetched my food and I did justice to it. But as I was eating, it kept ringing in my head. Haba! Forty pieces of meats.

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After I retired to a place I was putting up in the evening, I shared the strange experience with a brother.

“Eyin ara oke oya” meaning you people from the North. He said those boys I saw were Yahoo boys. He explained in detail how they operate, even though he lamented the ill development.

In the same year, I was in Ijebu-Ode on another official assignment and I lodged in a hotel. On a weekend, a group of boys drove in an exotic car and I overheard them telling the hotel receptionist that they would need steady light overnight and he assured them.

As early as 5:30 a.m. the following day they left the hotel and I quickly went out of my room, asked the receptionist who were they. In affirmative tone he disclosed they were Yahoo boys. I then sequentially narrated by experience at a restaurant in Abeokuta to him. He said,” Ema wo Bross, last night when they asked for alcohol upstairs; the ponmo i counted when they were eating may be up to 50 pieces”. That perfectly corroborated my strange experience in Abeokuta.

This piece is not all about my astonishment at the restaurant but uncovering the audacity of the young boys who are supposed to be the pride of our Nation. It is also significant to establish that Abeokuta is a cool city, where one can have good time, so explaining or sharing my experience about Yahoo boys there is not in any way to disparage the city and the people. The city has a special face lift in recent years due to the sagacity and good governance provided by former Governor, Ibikunle Amosun in the instances of expanded roads and bridges that would avail the eyes beautiful glimpse.

Significantly, the prevalence of Yahoo boys is now in almost every geopolitical zones in Nigeria. As parents we must teach our children the way of God so that they won’t go astray. We must not shy away from our primary responsibility of catering for them and monitoring them properly. Parents should not be too occupied to not having time for their children. At the end of one’s career, a person’s success is largely measurable, among other things, within the context of how well one’s children are doing.

*Causes of the Menace*

*Impatience*: The youth of today do not want to do the right thing. They want to cut corners. Get-rich-quick syndrome is what some of our youths believe in. They believe strongly that “Yahoo Yahoo” is the way to go. In fact, there is another level of it which is termed “Yahoo plus” , that is likened to rituals.

*Bad parenting*: This is the stage where “Yahoo Yahoo” is unconsciously nurtured by parents. As a parent it is your responsibility to provide for your child. But once you fail in this regard, you have exposed your children to dangerous or ruining tendencies. Once they see someone who is providing for them, thus they are susceptible to getting unwholesomely influenced. Some parents have indeed contributed to the waywardness of their children .

A social media Influencer, Ayekooto Akindele opined recently on his Facebook post, “Home Training is the greatest thing you owe the country as a patriotic citizen. Give it to your children before you give them smartphones”. Giving them smartphones early in life could lead them to such an unpalatable enterprise, if they are not properly monitored. It is better you don’t even give them.

I have read it online where mothers of Yahoo boys are calling themselves Association of Yahoo boys mothers Association. This is heart-wrenching and despicable. I have also heard that some parents advertently took their children to learn “Yahoo Yahoo”. This is also another sad one. Sometimes in 2020 in Ado Ekiti, the day the soccer maestro Diego Armando Maradona died, I was sitting in front of a restaurant with other colleagues and a young man was driving in an exotic car with some guys with him. Then one of the men who were also sitting close to a Vulcaniser spotted the young man and said ” him head dey there now, na Yahoo boys him dey drive. I was shocked and concluded that he was one of the bad parents contributing to the proliferation of Yahoos.The man by my observation could be in his 60s .Apparently, such a man does not see anything bad in such an unholy enterprise.

*Government attitude*: Our government laxity in providing jobs and enabling environment for private sectors to engage the youths is largely instrumental to the ugly social trend. Of course, the government can’t employ all her citizens; but can provide an enabling environment for private sectors to absolve many citizens.

*Get-rich-quick syndrome*: The youths of today want to cut corners and get rich quickly, forgetting the consequences of such excessive ambitions.

*Quest for luxury and freedom*: They want to belong to certain class in the society who are using exotic cars, Living in mansion and romancing beautiful women around them ,and lavishing the ill-gotten wealth on them uncontrollably.

*Peer group and Societal Pressure*. Mingling with bad boys can encourage innocent young men into Yahoo.Some parents and even the society sometimes mount unnecessary pressure on their sons by vituperating dangerous remarks that may ginger them into Yahoo business.

The National Assembly has huge responsibility towards addressing the threat by coming up with serious legislation that would spell out punishment for those who engage in Yahoo and Yahoo plus. They should also focus on the role of security agents in combating the menace because it has been rumoured that some security agents are also accomplices.

The Role of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) in combating the menace is commendable. There have been so many arrests and convictions of young men accros the country who are into Yahoo Yahoo. But frankly, what the EFCC is doing is basically a reactive approach; we must however imbibe a holistic approach that would engender both proactiveness and reactiveness.

A veritable aspect of the proactiveness is good parenting. If parents invest their energy, care and prayers, the children would be far from the various wayward tendencies, such as Yahoo Yahoo. Though we cannot rule out the fact that some parents have been dutiful in their roles, their children have chosen to betray positive moulding. Whichever way, good parenting remains the prerequisite towards ensuring that the menace is reduced to the barest minimum in our society.

The National Orientation Agency (NOA) has a role to play here. They should come up with jingles on radio,television and Internet that would dissuade young men from venturing into the menace of “Yahoo Yahoo” ; it would help the entire young population in the short and in the long run. There should also be the aspect targeted at parents, where the jingles would dramatise or explain the consequences of failing to protect and prevent their children from such evil machinations. The jingles should also focus on the Fleetingness of joy embedded in the Yahoo thing.They can equally partner other agencies in order to take the campaign to schools and other places.

It is imperative to establish that Yahoo Yahoo is more prevalent in some regions than the others. Hence, NOA should focus more on the regions where it is rampant. That doesn’t mean other regions should be disregarded. It is a serious threat to our noble existence and collective measures must be taken to addressing the menace. A stitch in time, they say, saves nine.

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Almajirai and Out-of-School Children: A Looming Crisis and the Path Forward

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By Hassan Auwalu Muhammad

The high number of ‘Almajirai’ and out-of-school children in this country poses a significant threat to our future, especially with their increasing presence on the streets of Kano and other parts of the north. Wherever you go, particularly on the roadside, you will often see young boys or girls approaching cars, begging for food. This issue has become rampant, even among adults.

In these trying times, and with the cost of living soaring and the constant threat of kidnapping and missing children, some parents are sending their children to different parts of the country for ‘Makarantun Allo’ to pursue Qur’anic education. However, they often do this without understanding the potential risks to their children’s lives.

While It is not wrong to send your child to school to seek knowledge, but the problem arises when parents do not know their child’s situation at the school. Are they taking care of their daily needs, or do they assume that the teachers and townspeople will look after them? The answer is often no.

Many parents are unaware of the conditions their children face. They believe their children are under the good care of their scholars, fulfilling their educational purpose, which is often not the case. Additionally, some children living with their parents do not attend school because their parents are unaware of the importance of education.

These children in most cases grow up without respect for their parents, who do not take care of them or know their whereabouts. Many people, deliberately or not deliberately are not focused on these issues, or perhaps they believe that if a problem does not affect them directly, it is not their concern. If people, especially in the Northern region where this problem is severe, understood the threat we face, they would take action to resolve it before it worsens.

When President Muhammadu Buhari’s administration created the National Commission for Almajiri and Out-of-School Children Education, the current government of Bola Ahmed Tinubu continued with the trend by appointing a civil servant to lead the commission. Since then, things have started to improve.

The agency’s efforts which was actually designed to create a supportive environment for the ‘Almajirai’ and their scholars by providing study materials, healthcare facilities, and awareness programs to help them embrace modern methods of acquiring Qur’anic education. One initiative is the creation of MUSABAQA VILLAGE in some parts of the country.

The Executive Secretary of the Commission, Dr. Idris Muhammad Sani, along with dedicated staff like Malam Daha Tijjani and Nura Muhammad, actually deserve commendation for their efforts. They are consulting with ‘Alarammomi’ and experts in Qur’anic teaching, ensuring there’s no discrimination or bias among the scholars involved. And this inclusive approach, if sustained will contribute greatly to bring beneficial reforms to the Almajiri system for everyone’s future.

It is our hope that with the commission’s ongoing efforts, we can expect positive changes in the Almajiri system and out-of-school children’s education soon.

You can contact Hassan via: m.shareef1980@gmail.com

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Nigeria Police:A Service Scheduled For Supreme Sacrifice-Bala Ibrahim

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Inspector General of police Kayode

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By Bala Ibrahim.

Every job or service has its own hazard or hazards, depending on the relationship between the worker, the task, the tools and the environment of assignment. In Nigeria, the duties of the police are spelt out as follows:

The prevention and detection of crime. The apprehension of offenders. The preservation of law and order. And finally, but most importantly, the protection of life and property. However, for some reasons that seem bizarre, while the Police is assigned the duty of protecting the life and property of the citizenry, his own life is left exposed to the possibility of being harmed, all the time.The police ethics enjoins him or her to move around always with the following quote in mind:

“I will maintain courageous calm in the face of danger, scorn or ridicule, develop self-restraint, and be constantly mindful of the welfare of others. Honest in thought and deed, both in my personal and official life, I will be exemplary in obeying the law and the regulations of my department and country”.

Last night, some Nigerians, the people of Kano state in particular, slept in agony, because of the sad story of a ghastly road accident, wherein at least five police officers attached to the Kano State Police Command were confirmed killed. According to the Kano police command’s spokesperson, SP Abdullahi Haruna, the auto accident occurred along the Kano-Zaria highway, in the wee hours of Tuesday. 11 others were also left with different degrees of injuries. SP Abdullahi said the accident happened around Karfi Village, Kura Local Government Area of Kano State, while the officers were on their way back to Kano from an official assignment. A trailer was attempting to reverse on the main road, and it rammed into the oncoming police vehicle.This is sad.

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All the scriptures have told us, and we believe that indeed death is inevitable. Yes, every mortal shall die, but how he or she is going to die is the unknown. Some die peacefully in their sleep. Some die in the hospital. Some die as a result of over air-conditioning. Some die as a result of over feeding. While others die due to anxiety, occasioned by the over comfort of excessive accumulation of wealth, ill gotten wealth. They would all be classified as deaths, but some deaths come as tragedies, or even catastrophes, because of the way they happened. For some reasons, some members of the Nigeria Police Service, by design or deliberate neglect, seem destined for catastrophic death. Why?

Indeed, Police officers know that each time they put on their uniform, they are taking risks to protect others. The system that puts them on such assignment must reckon with the fact that these police officers are putting their lives on the line, for the protection of others. Sometimes, in the discharge of these duties, the police insist on checking the roadworthiness of vehicles that ply the streets, in order to ensure that they are in suitable operating condition for safe driving and transportation of people or cargo. The ambition of the police is to promote safety on public roads by reducing danger to the passengers or other road users. Yet, in most cases, their own operational vehicles are road worthless. Apart from the issue of overwork, which is largely due to poor staff strength, police on duty in Nigeria do not have enough rest, talk less of the time to adequately prepare for the next challenge. Nigeria currently has a little over 370,000 Police Officers, which is just about 1:600 Police-Citizen ratio. This leaves them under a permanent stress threat, that takes advantage of their vulnerability.

If a thorough investigation were to be made on the Kano police accident, apart from questioning the mental health of the truck driver, for reversing a trailer on the Highway, the vehicle carrying the police officers on duty may also fail the test of road worthiness. It may also be road worthless. They were sent on a national assignment, in a rickety vehicle, that was probably without brakes. And the poor police met their deaths, dreadfully. There is no single day in Nigeria today, that you don’t hear of the police being killed in one mishap or another. The news is always of unlucky accidents, and the poor police are the victims. Why? Is the police service scheduled for Supreme sacrifice?

Numerous researches have indicated that the Nigeria police officers have an elevated risk of death, relative to the general population of the country, and the reasons are specific-poor working conditions.The controversy over the life expectancy of police officers in Nigeria is not limited to poor remuneration, but also the issue of kitting. When you refuse to provide someone with the appropriate equipment for an assignment, especially such assignments that are associated with high risks, you are politely assigning the person to death.

This article is intended to serve as a tribute, not just for the officers that died yesterday, but all the police that died on duty before them. There is an honourable memorial day quote that reads:

“We don’t know them all, but we owe them all. We come not to mourn our dead heroes but to praise them. We stand for the flag, we kneel for the fallen”.

May this accident prompt the government of Nigeria to do a great deal of soul-searching, with regards the situation of the police. And may the
souls of the fallen, rest in perfect peace, ameen.

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Why is Dangote Blackmailing NNPC?

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Alhaji Aliko Dangote

 

By Vincent Kayode

For two entities that are supposed to work together to provide energy security for Nigerians, you may wonder why Dangote has been using every means available to paint NNPC as the bad guy, while projecting himself and his company as the saviour Nigerians have all been waiting for. After some digging, I found out that Dangote is not telling the whole truth. In fact, he is manipulating the media and using paid influencers to tarnish NNPC’s image. The truth will shock you.

Now follow me, let us get into the facts.

1. The first question is why is DR not releasing its product prices, even after accusing NNPC of being “mischievous“. I was shocked that NNPC was so transparent in its dealings, which you would expect of any company operating in the public domain. But Dangote, even with his blatant accusations against NNPC, is not happy.

2. ⁠While subsidy is gone, most marketers have refused to import PMS because the margins are too low for their profitability calculations. NNPC on the other hand, is interested in the lowest prices for Nigerians, as it was not set up solely for profit. Dangote is not happy.

3. ⁠If left unchecked, DR would sell the product to Nigerians at 1300 Naira per litre. What NNPC did was to negotiate with Dangote, and drive down the prices to a range that will be cheaper for Nigerians to afford. Dangote is not happy.

4. ⁠By selling crude to DR in Naira, the FG and NNPC have shown not only good faith, but accountability. Reciprocity is the norm in business. This is why NNPC must have an office inside DR complex, to avoid “stories that touch the heart”. I guess DR is not happy that another entity ( NMDPRA, NNPC, MoF) is checking his production and supply claims. Trust me, but verify.

5. ⁠The much-touted business model of Mr Dangote is being tested here. His business successes have usually being around being a monopoly player, stifling competitors through unfair practices, and arm-twisting government to get special favours and waivers. If in doubt , Ask Mr Abdussamad Rabiu of BUA. Go and inquire about Ibeto Cement. The current administration believes in fairness to all players. Dangote is not the only businessman in Nigeria. Do your business, but don’t play blackmail card because you can’t have your way all the time. But Dangote is still not happy.

6. ⁠The crude oil being produced by NNPC and its JV partners are for the benefit of all Nigerians. NNPC is not in business to increase Dangote’s profit margin, but to ensure energy security for all Nigerians. This is a key provision of the Petroleum Industry Act (PIA) 2021. Still Dangote is not happy.

7. ⁠I think Mr Dangote is creating smokescreens to divert attention away from his refining issues. He should focus on producing the products he has promised, and in the quantity that he has promised. He should stop seeing NNPC as a threat.

8. ⁠The sky is big enough for all birds to fly. You cannot monopolise the Nigerian oil sector please. PMS is not cement, it is not sugar, and it is not flour. It is basically an essential commodity that can’t be allowed to be manipulated by just single individual, to the detriment of poor, unsuspecting Nigerians.

 

Vincent Kayode, wrote in from Lagos.

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