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The Day My Mouth Was Left Agape at an Abeokuta Restaurant

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Abdurraheem Saad Dembo

<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"Pc3y2YZm" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>By AbdurRaheem Sa&&num;8217&semi;ad Dembo<&sol;p><div class&equals;"sZBlhNfc" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>In June&comma; 2015 I was in Abeokuta on an official assignment but my experience at a restaurant around Panseke has remained memorable&period; It was a day my mouth was left opened in dismay&period; It was also a moment I was dumbfounded going by what I had witnessed at that restaurant&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I am from Ilorin but I lived in Kano throughout my secondary school and University education&comma; even though I visited Ilorin at the end of every semester&period; So is as good as I may not know what is obtainable among the young people in the Southern part of Nigeria&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As usual&comma; I entered the restaurant and requested for rice and beans with two meats&semi; meanwhile&comma; a group of young boys who were gorgeously dressed in polo shirts and three quarters came in&period; One of them said they should sell three wraps of Amala with forty pieces of meat&period; The next person requested for two wraps and thirty meats and so on&period; They came along with big plates or I can call it a slightly big cooler&period; I looked at my left and right side perplexed&period;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"obrQwyNE" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"6550225277"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>That was the first time I had witnessed such a scenario since I was born&period; The woman fetched my food and I did justice to it&period; But as I was eating&comma; it kept ringing in my head&period; Haba&excl; Forty pieces of meats&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>After I retired to a place I was putting up in the evening&comma; I shared the strange experience with a brother&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&&num;8220&semi;Eyin ara oke oya&&num;8221&semi; meaning you people from the North&period; He said those boys I saw were Yahoo boys&period; He explained in detail how they operate&comma; even though he lamented the ill development&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In the same year&comma; I was in Ijebu-Ode on another official assignment and I lodged in a hotel&period; On a weekend&comma; a group of boys drove in an exotic car and I overheard them telling the hotel receptionist that they would need steady light overnight and he assured them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As early as 5&colon;30 a&period;m&period; the following day they left the hotel and I quickly went out of my room&comma; asked the receptionist who were they&period; In affirmative tone he disclosed they were Yahoo boys&period; I then sequentially narrated by experience at a restaurant in Abeokuta to him&period; He said&comma;&&num;8221&semi; Ema wo Bross&comma; last night when they asked for alcohol upstairs&semi; the ponmo i counted when they were eating may be up to 50 pieces&&num;8221&semi;&period; That perfectly corroborated my strange experience in Abeokuta&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This piece is not all about my astonishment at the restaurant but uncovering the audacity of the young boys who are supposed to be the pride of our Nation&period; It is also significant to establish that Abeokuta is a cool city&comma; where one can have good time&comma; so explaining or sharing my experience about Yahoo boys there is not in any way to disparage the city and the people&period; The city has a special face lift in recent years due to the sagacity and good governance provided by former Governor&comma; Ibikunle Amosun in the instances of expanded roads and bridges that would avail the eyes beautiful glimpse&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Significantly&comma; the prevalence of Yahoo boys is now in almost every geopolitical zones in Nigeria&period; As parents we must teach our children the way of God so that they won&&num;8217&semi;t go astray&period; We must not shy away from our primary responsibility of catering for them and monitoring them properly&period; Parents should not be too occupied to not having time for their children&period; At the end of one&&num;8217&semi;s career&comma; a person&&num;8217&semi;s success is largely measurable&comma; among other things&comma; within the context of how well one&&num;8217&semi;s children are doing&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Causes of the Menace&ast;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Impatience&ast;&colon; The youth of today do not want to do the right thing&period; They want to cut corners&period; Get-rich-quick syndrome is what some of our youths believe in&period; They believe strongly that &&num;8220&semi;Yahoo Yahoo&&num;8221&semi; is the way to go&period; In fact&comma; there is another level of it which is termed &&num;8220&semi;Yahoo plus&&num;8221&semi; &comma; that is likened to rituals&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&ast;Bad parenting&ast;&colon; This is the stage where &&num;8220&semi;Yahoo Yahoo&&num;8221&semi; is unconsciously nurtured by parents&period; As a parent it is your responsibility to provide for your child&period; But once you fail in this regard&comma; you have exposed your children to dangerous or ruining tendencies&period; Once they see someone who is providing for them&comma; thus they are susceptible to getting unwholesomely influenced&period; Some parents have indeed contributed to the waywardness of their children &period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A social media Influencer&comma; Ayekooto Akindele opined recently on his Facebook post&comma; &&num;8220&semi;Home Training is the greatest thing you owe the country as a patriotic citizen&period; Give it to your children before you give them smartphones&&num;8221&semi;&period; Giving them smartphones early in life could lead them to such an unpalatable enterprise&comma; if they are not properly monitored&period; It is better you don&&num;8217&semi;t even give them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I have read it online where mothers of Yahoo boys are calling themselves Association of Yahoo boys mothers Association&period; This is heart-wrenching and despicable&period; I have also heard that some parents advertently took their children to learn &&num;8220&semi;Yahoo Yahoo&&num;8221&semi;&period; This is also another sad one&period; Sometimes in 2020 in Ado Ekiti&comma; the day the soccer maestro Diego Armando Maradona died&comma; I was sitting in front of a restaurant with other colleagues and a young man was driving in an exotic car with some guys with him&period; Then one of the men who were also sitting close to a Vulcaniser spotted the young man and said &&num;8221&semi; him head dey there now&comma; na Yahoo boys him dey drive&period; I was shocked and concluded that he was one of the bad parents contributing to the proliferation of Yahoos&period;The man by my observation could be in his 60s &period;Apparently&comma; such a man does not see anything bad in such an unholy enterprise&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Government attitude&ast;&colon; Our government laxity in providing jobs and enabling environment for private sectors to engage the youths is largely instrumental to the ugly social trend&period; Of course&comma; the government can&&num;8217&semi;t employ all her citizens&semi; but can provide an enabling environment for private sectors to absolve many citizens&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Get-rich-quick syndrome&ast;&colon; The youths of today want to cut corners and get rich quickly&comma; forgetting the consequences of such excessive ambitions&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Quest for luxury and freedom&ast;&colon; They want to belong to certain class in the society who are using exotic cars&comma; Living in mansion and romancing beautiful women around them &comma;and lavishing the ill-gotten wealth on them uncontrollably&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&ast;Peer group and Societal Pressure&ast;&period; Mingling with bad boys can encourage innocent young men into Yahoo&period;Some parents and even the society sometimes mount unnecessary pressure on their sons by vituperating dangerous remarks that may ginger them into Yahoo business&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The National Assembly has huge responsibility towards addressing the threat by coming up with serious legislation that would spell out punishment for those who engage in Yahoo and Yahoo plus&period; They should also focus on the role of security agents in combating the menace because it has been rumoured that some security agents are also accomplices&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The Role of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission &lpar;EFCC&rpar; in combating the menace is commendable&period; There have been so many arrests and convictions of young men accros the country who are into Yahoo Yahoo&period; But frankly&comma; what the EFCC is doing is basically a reactive approach&semi; we must however imbibe a holistic approach that would engender both proactiveness and reactiveness&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A veritable aspect of the proactiveness is good parenting&period; If parents invest their energy&comma; care and prayers&comma; the children would be far from the various wayward tendencies&comma; such as Yahoo Yahoo&period; Though we cannot rule out the fact that some parents have been dutiful in their roles&comma; their children have chosen to betray positive moulding&period; Whichever way&comma; good parenting remains the prerequisite towards ensuring that the menace is reduced to the barest minimum in our society&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The National Orientation Agency &lpar;NOA&rpar; has a role to play here&period; They should come up with jingles on radio&comma;television and Internet that would dissuade young men from venturing into the menace of &&num;8220&semi;Yahoo Yahoo&&num;8221&semi; &semi; it would help the entire young population in the short and in the long run&period; There should also be the aspect targeted at parents&comma; where the jingles would dramatise or explain the consequences of failing to protect and prevent their children from such evil machinations&period; The jingles should also focus on the Fleetingness of joy embedded in the Yahoo thing&period;They can equally partner other agencies in order to take the campaign to schools and other places&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It is imperative to establish that Yahoo Yahoo is more prevalent in some regions than the others&period; Hence&comma; NOA should focus more on the regions where it is rampant&period; That doesn&&num;8217&semi;t mean other regions should be disregarded&period; It is a serious threat to our noble existence and collective measures must be taken to addressing the menace&period; A stitch in time&comma; they say&comma; saves nine&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>abdurraheemsaaddembo&commat;gmail&period;com<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER -->&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5" id&equals;"quads-ad5" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"autorelaxed" &NewLine; 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