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<p>By AbdurRaheem Sa&#8217;ad Dembo</p><div class="hqvE3hsn" style="clear:both;float:left;width:100%;margin:0 0 20px 0;"><script async src="https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script>

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<p>It was at the peak of COVID-19 pandemic, precisely May 22nd, 2020 and a day to the end of Ramadan fast when death struck and took her away from us. On the 29th day of Ramadan, she was served her food to break fast but she could not, and that marked the end of an era in our family. Her selflessness was beyond<br />
description. A good family woman who did not in any way jettison her family. She could travel from Lagos to Ilorin in order to attend family events as many times as possible within a year. She was not a millionaire but she had a heart of giving. Her investment on us has paid off.</p>
<p>We lost our father at a time some of us could not fend for ourselves but we have elder brothers, sisters and even cousins who were selfless, and they assisted us in actualizing our dreams. A woman would always be woman; they have large heart and there is a way they always do their things with care and spice. As an undergraduate student in Bayero University, Kano; before resuming to school for a new semester, it was willy-nilly to visit Lagos and get cash from her.</p>
<p>My observation of her was that of a woman with a great mind. She was not educated as such but had exposure that could match or compete with some who had privilege to get higher education. How do you know a great mind? Certainly, it is through selfless attitude and her contributions to humanity. There is no any discussion you would embark upon and she would not contribute immensely. At that point you would look and appreciate her for being an enlightened person.</p><div class="M9aHxXg3" style="clear:both;float:left;width:100%;margin:0 0 20px 0;"><script async src="https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js"></script>

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<p>I learnt the culture of giving from observing my father and selflessness of my brothers and sisters; it is a profitable enterprise. If I have had selfish brothers, sisters and cousins I might not have had the opportunity of going to school. I might have ended up somewhere less glamorous in the society. An educated person sometimes may not be rich or enmesh in a perpetual poverty but he would be free from shackles of ignorance and penury. Like the common saying &#8220;We are acquiring education to overcome or have a say over poverty&#8221; .But being educated and rich at the same time; ultimately the prerogative of Allah</p>
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<p>If you are building somebody; you are invariably helping yourself. My sister is no more alive but her good deeds still illuminating and resonating in our minds. Despite her huge investment in us, she would never ask you to go and bring anything even though she deserved everything from us.</p>
<p>Significantly, it is not until one is rich before he or she can help. If one is waiting for that time, it may never come. Like the popular saying on the social media, &#8220;it is not the rich people that help, but the good people&#8221;.</p>
<p>My sister was blunt; if you had offended her she would tell you. She had no heart for malice. Another beautiful thing about her was the way she united the family. She did not belong to that class of women that would say &#8220;let us scatter everything&#8221;. Of course, if you scatter everything, everything would go worse.</p>
<p>If we&#8217;re alive and seeing each other; it is a rare opportunity to be kind and fair to one another. The reason is simple, because there would be a time death will overtake us one after the other and we would account for our deeds. We should always be patient with one another. A united family is far greater and stronger than the scattered ones.</p>
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<p>On 12th December, 2023 I was in Lagos on official assignment, but I was not elated. I told my nephew that any time I was in Lagos it was usually a boring experience after my sister&#8217;s demise.</p>
<p>Eulogising our own Ajiun Omo Ade in a singular tone of mine won&#8217;t be sufficient and that&#8217;s why I had to reach out to some members of the family to tell their own perspective of her.</p>
<p>A foremost politician, Alhaji Ahmad Alfa Dembo describes her this way, &#8220;Ajiun united the family and would never want to see anyone in difficulty. She always rejoiced with whoever that was doing well among family members.She would ensure that she prevents anything that might pave way for misunderstanding among family members. She was a great lover of the family&#8221;</p>
<p>A retired Warrant Officer II , Nigerian Army, Mallam Usman Dembo captured her personality thus &#8220;She was very liberal , accommodating, and has no hate in her mind. She was honest and straight-forward .Above all ,she was always on the side of the truth.May Allah increase His mercy on her.</p>
<p>Alhaji Shuaib Lanre Dembo, a retired Training Manager, Transcorp Hilton Hotel, Abuja said,&#8221; Ajiun was a team player who felt at home with everyone in the family irrespective of the lineage. She was so much loved by my wife because she accorded my wife the respect she gave me. She helped resolved some disputes I can&#8217;t mention here. She is really missed.&#8221;</p>
<p>The Imam of Masalasi Alfa n&#8217;ta ,Sheikh Salihu Sa&#8217;ad Dembo said Alhaja Ajiun was a good elder sister , who had done her best in uniting the family of her father and that of her husband. She was generous, prayerful, kind, and one who hardly gets angry. She was a guardian to him as her advice had worked for him on several occasions. He asserted that to the best of his knowledge, she was submissive and kind to her husband.He prayed Allah to overlook her inadequacies and that of her husband by granting them aljannah firdaus</p>
<p>Hajiya Maryam Imam Bashir, who is the second wife of Chief Imam of Ilorin describes her aptly: &#8220;She was kind and generous,and a family unifier.May Allah grant her aljannah firdaus&#8221;</p>
<p>Sheikh Hassan Sa&#8217;ad Dembo,who is also the Khalifatul Quadriyya in Portharcourt ,River State opines &#8220;Alhaja Salamatu Ajiun was a good sister, she united the family and was not selfish. She always stand with family members either in good or bad time. During my wedding she bought<br />
clothes for me and my wife. If you visit her in Lagos she would treat you with comprehensive hospitality&#8221;</p>
<p>In the words of Ajanasi Makana,Mallam Yusuf Sa&#8217;ad Dembo, &#8220;She was so compassionate, kind, prayerful, and she loved saying the truth&#8221;</p>
<p>Mrs Shakira Abdulrauf is her eldest child. Here is what she has to say about her late mother,&#8221; My mother was not temperamental. She was kind, caring, and a family unifier.</p>
<p>She was so generous that she could spend her last kobo and began to look for another money the following day.</p>
<p>She had no hate and did not underrate anyone either among friends or family. May Allah continue to grant her mercy by granting her aljannah firdaus&#8221;</p>
<p>Yusuf Issa Aloba, a staff of Kwara Inland Revenue Service also has this to say about her<br />
&#8220;She was generous to a fault, she was a pillar for me during my undergraduate days, She upheld the family ties.</p>
<p>I know I owe her a lot. I&#8217;m happy that at least I was able to visit her during an official training in Lagos, at the same house we used to stay whenever we went for holidays . She was very happy when she saw me, she said &#8221; Amuda, eku ojo meta&#8221;</p>
<p>When I heard the news of her death I was shocked and I said to myself, I&#8217;m I dreaming? I wished she could live longer for me to reciprocate her generosity. May jannatul Firdaus be her final abode.&#8221;</p>
<p>Alhaja Ajiun was not only a sister but also Godsent. She understood me so much that by mere looking at me she knew what I wanted.May Allah forgive her shortcomings.</p>
<p>Finally, May Allah reward her with aljannah firdaus and bless her children she left behind.Ya Allah equally bless those who have touched our lives positively: family members, friends, and outsiders.</p>
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