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Problems Of Hiding Vital Information During Courtship

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<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"2NYQOPNf" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>By Abdulmutallib Mukhtar<&sol;p><div class&equals;"PjYp50az" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>Hiding vital information has played more destructive than fixative roles in both pre-marital and marital relationships&period; Relationships and marriages have been failing because couples keep hiding vital information from themselves&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Recently&comma; a much anxiously anticipated wedding sadly failed two days to the wedding after the grandmother of the awaiting bride visited from another town&period; The awaiting groom met the grandmother and greeted her&period; She gave him some elderly pieces of advice about the complexity of marriage institution&period; While giving him the advice&comma; she innocently mentioned someone&&num;8217&semi;s name as ex-husband to his bride-to-be&comma; as a way of furnishing an example about the significance of patience&period; This descended to his ears like an arrow&period; He quickly left furiously without her reaching a conclusion&period; What happened was that&comma; from the beginning of his relationship with the young lady&comma; she had never told him she was once married even though the marriage lasted only for a short period of time and there was no conception&period; Her family had not also disclosed to him of this issue&period; But the innocent grandmother had never known the information was concealed&comma; hence her letting the cat out of the bag&period; The marriage couldn&&num;8217&semi;t take place even after family members and friends had visited from different places for the wedding&period;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"0vnguId4" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"6550225277"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;nigeriantracker&period;com&sol;2021&sol;07&sol;17&sol;danfulani-is-a-blessing-to-us-gusau-residents&sol;">Danfulani Is A Blessing To Us-Gusau Residents<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Secondly&comma; a close friend dated a young lady recently and he honestly fell in love with her so much that he sent his elders to her guardians&period; She loved him too and sincerely needed the marriage&period; The lady was not only beautiful&comma; but also an embodiment of many enviable qualities among which is her widely known good character&period; She told him that her father died when she was young and that she was brought up by a maternal uncle&period; She said all her father&&num;8217&semi;s relatives lived in one of the core northern states&period; It was when his elders insisted to meet her guardians from the side of the father for their marriage arrangements that something hidden was eventually discovered&period; She refused to disclose that there was a problem between her mother&&num;8217&semi;s and father&&num;8217&semi;s families which put the two families at loggerheads&period; And she and her mother had cut all times with the father&&num;8217&semi;s<a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;womenshealth&period;gov&sol;menstrual-cycle&sol;period-problems"> family for a long period of time&period;<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5" id&equals;"quads-ad5" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>For this reason&comma; she directed her soon-to-be-husband&&num;8217&semi;s elders to a man whom she claimed to be a brother to her late father&period; When they traveled to where the man lives&comma; he told them a quite different story&period; He said he is not a brother to her father and that the paternal relatives to the young lady live in the same town she lives along with her mother&period; He said she lied simply because she was avoiding anything with her father&&num;8217&semi;s relatives&period; They returned home disappointed as a result of which they ordered their son to jilt her on the basis of her non-disclosure and lies&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In addition&comma; a man I also closely related with married a fine divorcee&period; She told him that she married once in her life and that her ex-husband divorced her on the unproven accusation of marital infidelity&period; Her guardians also maintained the same&period; But despite this&comma; the man still went ahead and married her happily&period; Shortly after the marriage&comma; he discovered that his wife married four men before him&period; This sudden discovery terminated the marriage&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Similar stories abound with the sad ending because we think erecting a building on a faulty foundation can&comma; in our narrow thinking&comma; stand the test of time&period; In fact&comma; not only concealment of fact brings relationships to an end&comma; even mere pretenses do&period; Relationships have to be transparent to avoid a tragic endings&period; No matter how long the relationship lingers&comma; it can crash upon the discovery of something previously and deliberately concealed&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Abdul Mutallib Muktar<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER -->&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; 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