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Of The Dead, Say Nothing But Good-Bala Ibrahim

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<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"CGK0xr5W" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"X03Za9D9" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>By Bala Ibrahim&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The caption above is not mine&comma; it&&num;8217&semi;s borrowed from an ancient Latin proverb that says&comma; &&num;8220&semi;De mortuis nil nisi bonum&period;&&num;8221&semi; The literal meaning of the proverb is that-it&&num;8217&semi;s inappropriate&comma; disrespectful or even rude&comma; to speak ill of the dead because&comma; they can&&num;8217&semi;t defend themselves&period; In Islam&comma; there is a hadith that goes thus&colon; &&num;8220&semi;Do not curse the dead&comma; for they have reached the result of what they have done&period; There is also a Christian principle with similar ambition&comma; like Proverbs 24&colon;17-18 &lpar;don&&num;8217&semi;t rejoice in enemy&&num;8217&semi;s fall&rpar; and Ephesians 4&colon;32 &lpar;be kind&comma; forgiving&rpar;&period; All of them are reflecting on the importance of saying nothing but good about the dead&period; The two religions are encouraging us to focus on God&&num;8217&semi;s grace and the good qualities of the dead&comma; by letting go of bitterness and leaving judgment to God&comma; because&comma; it&&num;8217&semi;s unfair to speak ill of those who can&&num;8217&semi;t defend themselves&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Yesterday&comma; Monday&comma; a book was unveiled at the Presidential Villa Abuja&comma; titled &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;From Soldier to Statesman&&num;8221&semi;&period; It is a biography of the late former president&comma; Muhammadu Buhari&comma; authored by Charles Omole&period; Reacting to the book&comma; President Tinubu said late President Muhammadu Buhari was a leader defined by integrity&comma; discipline and a lifelong commitment to public service&comma; whose legacy should guide future leaders rather than be reduced to slogans&period; He said the book offers Nigerians the opportunity to learn from Mr Buhari and affirmed that the greatest honour to be bestowed on the late President is to sustain his legacy&comma; to which his administration would do&period; These are comments that come in tandem with the ambition of saying nothing but good about the dead&period;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"MqC8NdbE" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"6550225277"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>On his side also&comma; Mr&period; Yusuf Magaji Bichi&comma; the former Director General of the Department of State Services&comma; DSS&comma; who served under Buhari as well as briefly under President Tinubu&comma; he eulogized Buhari very well&comma; describing those accusing him of rigging elections as ignorants&period; He stated that the late former President Muhammadu Buhari lacked any tendency to rig elections&period; He was too correct to engage in such wrong doings&period; Those are comments that came in tandem with the ambition of saying nothing but good about the dead&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Even in the journalism profession&comma; we are tutored to distant ourselves from doing stories that carry the badge of bias&period; The imperative of balancing stories in journalism is the cornerstone of ethical practice&period; The aim is for journalists to be seen as fair&comma; impartial&comma; and accurate in the presentation of events&period; That way&comma; an informed public debate would be fostered always&period; Without hearing the other side&comma; if published&comma; the story is classified&comma; or even crucified&comma; as unbalanced and unfair&period; That is the imperative of balancing in order to champion the truth and accuracy&period; If you submit a story that carries one side only&comma; without the other side&comma; you have failed in upholding the truth and accuracy&comma; thereby denting the cradle of credibility and public trust&period; The credibility of the story becomes more questioned&comma; when the other side belongs to the dead&period; That is a professional position in tandem with the ambition of saying nothing bad about the living&comma; talk less of the dead&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad3" id&equals;"quads-ad3" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>But&comma; in something &&num;8220&semi;surprising&&num;8221&semi; &lpar;and I put the word surprising in inverted comma because&comma; it hits me as an unethical act&rpar;&comma; the widow of late President Muhammadu Buhari&comma; Hajiya Aisha Buhari&comma; commented in contrast to the missions of both Islam and Christianity&comma; as well as the positions of many professions and ethical values&period; In her comments about the dead&comma; on whom the book was written&comma; Aisha is quoted all over the media&comma; as saying somewhere in the book&comma; that her late husband&comma; former President Muhammadu Buhari&comma; became distrustful of her at the tail end of their stay in the villa&period; According to her&comma; Buhari bought into gossips and fearmongering&comma; to the extent that he began locking up his room when going out&comma; because he was told she was planning to kill him&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;My husband believed them for a week or so&period; Buhari began locking his room&comma; altered his daily habits&comma; and most critically&comma; meals were delayed or missed&comma; the supplements were stopped&period; For a year&comma; he did not have lunch&period; They mismanaged his meals&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Whoever the &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;they” may be&comma; these are not the kind of comments to expect from a widow&comma; whose late husband is in the grave&period; They are comments that run contrary to the ambition of saying nothing but good about the dead&comma; and in conflict with the principle of balancing&comma; in the narration of a story&period; She gave her own side&comma; which she wants the world to believe&comma; knowing fully that we can not get the other side&period; That&&num;8217&semi;s unethical&period; Everyone said something good about late Buhari&comma; which requires no balancing&period; But the submission of Aisha is a balderdash&comma; that is not balanced&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER -->&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; 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