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A FRIEND’S LETTER TO ABDULMUMIN AT FIFTY

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<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;5 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"ntf1U6tY" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>By Barr&period; Ismaeel Ahmed&comma; OON<&sol;p><div class&equals;"9DsmuV4A" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>There is a particular privilege in knowing someone before the world decided who they were going to be&semi; before the titles&comma; the cameras&comma; the offices and the public arguments&period; I have had that privilege with Abdulmumin Jibrin&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I knew Abdulmumin long before most people knew him as they do today&comma; before the National Assembly and before the many chapters of public life that have since defined his name&period; So&comma; as he turns fifty&comma; I find myself writing not about the Honourable Member for Kiru and Bebeji&comma; but about my friend&comma; my older brother and school father&period; That distinction has always mattered&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I remember someone whose mind never seemed to rest&period; Chairman&comma; as we fondly call him&comma; could take an idea everyone else had accepted&comma; turn it around repeatedly&comma; question it from every direction and continue long after the rest of us had become tired of the conversation&period; I used to tease him about it&comma; and sometimes I still do&period; But over the years&comma; I have come to understand that this intellectual restlessness is at the very centre of who he is&period;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"EBCMBzL3" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"6550225277"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>It explains the businessman&comma; the teacher&comma; the politician and the scholar who earned a PhD in International Relations and&comma; years later&comma; returned to Bayero University Kano for another in Economics&period; Chairman has never believed that learning has an end point&period; He is always searching for the next question and&comma; inevitably&comma; the better answer&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;5 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5" id&equals;"quads-ad5" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Yet&comma; for all his accomplishments&comma; what I value most about him is something much simpler&colon; his loyalty&period; He remembers people&period; He remembers friendships&comma; kindnesses and those who stood with him when there was little to gain from doing so&period; Beneath the forcefulness that people see in public is a tenderness and generosity that those who know him closely understand very well&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;5 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>I have also had the privilege of seeing him through both triumph and adversity&period; His political journey has had its share of difficult seasons&comma; some of them difficult enough to discourage almost anyone&period; But Chairman has an extraordinary capacity to return&period; He reflects&comma; recalibrates and rises again&period; Not because the fall did not hurt&comma; but because he has always believed that a difficult chapter does not have to be the end of the story&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Perhaps that is one of the most important lessons of his first fifty years&period; We are not measured by never falling&period; We are measured by what we learn from the fall and whether we find the courage to rise again&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Another quality I have come to admire is his ability to create room for other people to grow&period; He does not merely occupy spaces&semi; he opens conversations&comma; shares ideas and encourages those around him to think beyond their immediate circumstances&period; Many people have benefited from his advice&comma; introductions&comma; encouragement and willingness to challenge them to become better versions of themselves&period; That influence may not always be visible&comma; but it is one of the lasting marks a person leaves on the lives of others&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He also possesses a rare ability to remain connected to his roots while engaging confidently with the wider world&period; Whether in the classroom&comma; the boardroom&comma; the political arena or among friends&comma; he carries with him a strong sense of identity and responsibility&period; His journey has taken him through different institutions and experiences&comma; but it has not separated him from the people&comma; values and community that shaped him&period; That balance is not easy to maintain&comma; and it is one of the reasons his story continues to resonate with many people&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At fifty&comma; therefore&comma; I am less interested in counting Abdulmumin’s offices&comma; businesses&comma; degrees or political accomplishments&period; I think instead of the full measure of the man I have known&colon; the businessman who understood risk&comma; the scholar who never stopped learning&comma; the politician who survived both victory and defeat&comma; and the friend who still remembers to call&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Fifty is a beautiful milestone&period; It gives a man enough road behind him to understand the journey&comma; and&comma; God willing&comma; enough road ahead to decide what he wants the rest of that journey to mean&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>My Chairman&comma; I hope the years ahead bring a little more patience to your restlessness and a little more peace to your ambition&period; Build more&period; Give more&period; Mentor more&period; Forgive quickly&comma; as you have always somehow managed to do&period; And worry less about who receives the credit&period; History has its own way of separating noise from substance&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Happy fiftieth birthday&comma; Sir&period; May the years ahead bring you more wisdom than ambition&comma; more peace than pressure&comma; more purpose than applause&comma; and many more opportunities to give than reasons to receive&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Congrats&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER -->&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 3&period;0&period;5 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad3" id&equals;"quads-ad3" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"autorelaxed" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"1004305389"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; 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