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After My Parents, Then Prof. Nelson Aluya A Tribute to a Mentor Who Changed a Life

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<p><&excl;-- BEGIN THEIA POST SLIDER --><&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"6E4kPF19" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>By Zubair A&period; Zubair<&sol;p><div class&equals;"eM1ncS2Z" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<&excl;-- TV --> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"4399361195" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"auto" &NewLine; data-full-width-responsive&equals;"true"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>When Dr&period; Veronica&comma; then a lecturer at the University of San Francisco&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;adopted” me as her son in early 2020&comma; I never imagined that a simple WhatsApp introduction would alter the trajectory of my life&period; Nestled in a group chat named &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Nigerians in Diaspora&comma;” I soaked up every opportunity she shared&comma; scholarships&comma; networking events&comma; webinars&period; One afternoon in 2020&comma; she tagged the president of the Nigerian American Public Affairs Committee &lpar;NAPAC USA&rpar;&comma; Prof&period; Nelson Aluya&comma; in a post about an upcoming virtual panel&period; Without hesitation&comma; I sent him a direct message expressing my eagerness to join the discussion&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At the time&comma; Prof&period; Aluya was an Associate Professor of Medicine at Rutgers Medical School in New Jersey&period; His response was swift and generous&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Welcome aboard&comma; Zubair&period; I look forward to seeing you there&period;” Little did I know that his simple act of inclusion would mark the beginning of a mentorship unlike any other&period; In that moment&comma; I realized there was a connection&period; I had first encountered his name&comma; and his eloquent voice&comma; on NTA News in February 2018&comma; when he spoke passionately about diabetes awareness&period; His clarity and compassion had captivated me then&semi; now&comma; I was on the verge of being guided by him&period;<&sol;p><div class&equals;"GfQ9YajK" style&equals;"clear&colon;both&semi;float&colon;left&semi;width&colon;100&percnt;&semi;margin&colon;0 0 20px 0&semi;"><script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; style&equals;"display&colon;block&semi; text-align&colon;center&semi;" &NewLine; data-ad-layout&equals;"in-article" &NewLine; data-ad-format&equals;"fluid" &NewLine; data-ad-client&equals;"ca-pub-4403533287178375" &NewLine; data-ad-slot&equals;"6550225277"><&sol;ins> &NewLine;<script> &NewLine; &lpar;adsbygoogle &equals; window&period;adsbygoogle &vert;&vert; &lbrack;&rsqb;&rpar;&period;push&lpar;&lbrace;&rcub;&rpar;&semi; &NewLine;<&sol;script><&sol;div>&NewLine;<p>A Promise to Mentor<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>During our first call in 2020&comma; I nervously explained that I was a university student back home in Kano&period; Prof&period; Aluya listened intently&comma; then made me a promise&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;I will mentor you to become the leader Nigeria needs&comma; confident&comma; compassionate&comma; and competent&period;” He introduced me to Aliyu Sulaiman&comma; another aspiring youth leader&comma; and together we launched a new WhatsApp group in early February 2021 called &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Wake Up Africa&period;” Our shared mission was ambitious&colon; to bridge divides between Africans on the continent&comma; Africans in the diaspora&comma; and people of African descent worldwide&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad5" id&equals;"quads-ad5" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>Trials&comma; Tribulations&comma; and Unwavering Support&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Life’s challenges tested our resolve almost immediately&period; In March 2021&comma; I lost my phone unexpectedly and was unable to rejoin the group for eight months&period; Just as I managed to reconnect in November&comma; fate intervened again&colon; during my &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Use of English” exam&comma; I misplaced my replacement phone&period; Forced offline once more&comma; I spent two months unable to participate&period; Yet every time I resurfaced&comma; Prof&period; Aluya reached out with the same warmth&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Zubair&comma; we miss your voice&period; How can I help&quest;” His unwavering support reminded me that mentorship transcends geography and setbacks&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad1" id&equals;"quads-ad1" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;<p>From Virtual Chats to In-Person Impact<br &sol;>&NewLine;In January 2022&comma; Prof&period; Aluya sponsored Aliyu&comma; Shamsudden&comma; and me to attend a Pan-African youth forum in Abuja&period; Walking into that conference hall&comma; I felt the weight of possibility settle on my shoulders&period; Surrounded by young change-makers&comma; I realized how vital our &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Wake Up Africa” vision could be&period; Buoyed by this experience&comma; Prof&period; Aluya challenged us to formalize our efforts&period; Thus&comma; in February 2022&comma; Youth Together Work Together &lpar;YTWT&rpar; was born a youth-led organization dedicated to community action across Nigeria&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Three Signature Projects<br &sol;>&NewLine;Under Prof&period; Aluya’s guidance and financial backing&comma; YTWT executed three flagship initiatives over the next eighteen months&colon;<br &sol;>&NewLine;1&period; Religious Tolerance Seminar &lpar;Kaduna&comma; July 2022&rpar;&colon; Bringing together Muslim and Christian youth to foster dialogue and mutual respect&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;2&period; Market Cleanup &lpar;Kano&comma; August 2022&rpar;&colon; Mobilizing students&comma; activists&comma; journalists and traders to restore the city’s bustling markets&comma; highlighting civic pride&period;<br &sol;>&NewLine;3&period; Youth Against Drug Abuse Campaign &lpar;Abuja&comma; May 2024&rpar;&colon; Conducting workshops in schools&comma; markets and community centers to educate peers on substance-abuse prevention&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Each project bore Prof&period; Aluya’s fingerprints&colon; from strategy sessions over Zoom to on-the-ground coordination and resource mobilization&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Beyond Events&colon; Lifelong Lessons<br &sol;>&NewLine;Prof&period; Aluya’s investment in me extended far beyond sponsoring trips&period; He guided me through public-speaking workshops&comma; critiqued my writing&comma; and introduced me to networks of professionals across healthcare&comma; technology&comma; and public policy&period; In July 2023&comma; he arranged for me to attend a cybersecurity seminar in Jos&semi; in April 2024&comma; an IT conference in Ibadan&semi; and this March&comma; the &OpenCurlyQuote;Come Talk Africa’ in Abuja&period; At each event&comma; he reminded me&colon; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Zubair&comma; your voice matters&period; Use it well&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>His mentorship taught me resilience in the face of failure&comma; humility in success&comma; and generosity without expectation&period; When I doubted my talents&comma; he reaffirmed them&period; When I feared I wasn’t enough&comma; he declared that I already was&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A Mentor’s Legacy<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Mentors come and go&comma; but rare is the one who reshapes your understanding of service&comma; leadership&comma; and compassion&period; Prof&period; Aluya did more than fund projects&comma; he believed in my potential when others did not see it&period; He challenged me to think bigger&comma; serve better&comma; and lead with my heart&period; Without ever asking for thanks&comma; he gave of himself freely&colon; his time&comma; his wisdom&comma; and his unwavering belief in Nigeria’s youth&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Conclusion<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>My parents gave me life and love&period; After them&comma; Prof&period; Nelson Aluya gave me purpose and direction&period; As I prepare to graduate and embark on my own journey of service&comma; I carry his lessons with me&colon; to uplift others&comma; to persevere through adversity&comma; and to lead with integrity&period; This tribute&comma; published today&comma; is but a small token of my gratitude&comma; and a reminder that some of the greatest gifts we receive are the people who see our potential before we see it ourselves&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;A mentor is not always the one who stands at your side&comma; it is the one who reaches out to lift you higher&period;”<br &sol;>&NewLine;&&num;8211&semi; Prof&period; Nelson Aluya<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>By Zubair A&period; Zubair<br &sol;>&NewLine;Kano&comma; Nigeria<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><&excl;-- END THEIA POST SLIDER -->&NewLine;<&excl;-- WP QUADS Content Ad Plugin v&period; 2&period;0&period;95 -->&NewLine;<div class&equals;"quads-location quads-ad4" id&equals;"quads-ad4" style&equals;"float&colon;none&semi;margin&colon;0px&semi;">&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<script async src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;pagead2&period;googlesyndication&period;com&sol;pagead&sol;js&sol;adsbygoogle&period;js"><&sol;script> &NewLine;<ins class&equals;"adsbygoogle" &NewLine; 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